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The CFNM (Clothed female, naked male = female dressed, naked man) is an erotic game from a simple principle: do what you do, stay dressed women and men are naked or leave gradually stripping.
This game is built upon three pillars:
- The woman holds the control of the game at all times. Man has to assume that it can not ever take the initiative, can not ask for anything (that touched, for example) or do anything (touching a woman without her consent is strictly prohibited.) Thus, the woman is free to draw his uninhibited and playful side.
- is designed for female pleasure , thus freeing women from traditional sobreatención man's pleasure in everything you do. Of course, the man gets pleasure (a lot) to indulge in this way to women and there must be that complacency by men, one of the things that can appeal to a woman cfnm is that precisely is the man who propose, handing the keys to his will. Can cfnm scenarios created coerced, and work well as coercion is understood that as agreed in the game and not real.
- In cfnm, woman is the desiring subject and man the object desirable . The woman is the protagonist and the man has the privilege of being the means by which the protagonist derives pleasure. occurs thus investing the traditional roles of looking and being looked . Indeed, women are usually who seeks to be the focus of a male gaze. In just the opposite occurs cfnm: cfnm on stage, she may well be a nice dress or be in jeans and T: the basics to occur is that you are dressed ... and that man is naked, of course ;-)
On the Internet, more and more pages on this subject (if you put in google "cfnm" out, to date, 3,870,000 references), without But mostly distort the original sense of cfnm. In most of them, is a sexual feast for the man who ends up being masturbated by several women, making love with them, astonished at his body ... Again, male egotism and its failure to relocate results in scenes worthy of a harem of modern times, the conclusion is categorical: Even in games where the woman is in control, men continue to enforce its fantasies.
still a long way to go for women to start (or regain) its true importance in sex play and take his personal vision of eroticism. Anyway, let us be optimistic: the cfnm is an indication that things are changing and we're the ones who have to make men do not rob us this suggestive idea: they, they are limited to undress :-)
